Redefining Relationships

When I think about relationships, especially romantic ones, it feels like we're using outdated blueprints in a world that's rapidly evolving. It's like trying to go cashless in a place without reliable electricity—there are some basic things missing that we need to address before moving forward.

We used to think getting married and having kids early was a must, but now, those are more like optional bonuses. We have so many choices today; we can live with friends, share parenting duties, and design our lives the way we want. But sometimes, we forget that and stick to old ideas as if they're still essential.

Our idea of finding a partner often doesn't match our modern needs. We might think we need someone to support us, but end up with someone who doesn't. It's like we're still playing by old rules in a game that's changed.

What we really need now is to trust our instincts and figure out what works best for us. We don't have to follow the old ways of survival anymore. We're lucky to have the freedom to explore and be ourselves, without the pressure our parents felt.

So let's embrace this new era with open arms. Let's approach our relationships with thoughtfulness and purpose, carving out paths that reflect who we truly are. It's our chance to rewrite the rules and create connections that feel right for us.

Love Bose. xxxxx